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	What is Sexual Acting Out ? For most men, everything is about sex, except sex, which often enough is about shame, emotional absence, masculine insecurity, self-involvement, aggression, and self-destructiveness. Sexual Acting-Out (I want sex now), the seventh male attribute, presents a dramatic condensation and a summary of all the previous elements. For example, some men can only get aroused by fantasies of rape. Here, aggression is sexualized. Others become impotent, meaning, they are tired of being on top and want to be soft, sexualizing their masculine insecurity conflict. The good news is that the male sexual language is not entirely foreign. It is more like a dialect, but one which can and should be deciphered by both women and men. How can I learn more about Sexual Acting Out? Get the book and read about the psychology of impotence, premature ejaculation, celibacy, masturbation, pornography and all matter of sexual fantasy. Read the last chapter of If Men Could Talk and learn how to interpret the non-sexual messages of male sexuality, and how to help yourself or your partner to resolve sexual problems.